‘I Don’t Regret Anything’: LJ’s Story of Moving from Germany to Cleveland

CLEVELAND — For many, Cleveland isn’t the first place that comes to mind when considering a move across the globe. But for LJ, a German-American, this city by Lake Erie became the place he now proudly calls home.

Six-and-a-half years ago, LJ packed his bags in Germany and moved to Cleveland, following the footsteps of his father, a native Clevelander. With little in the way of expectations, his journey has since blossomed into a story of surprise, resilience, and, ultimately, love for a city that welcomed him with open arms.

“I didn’t think much of it, honestly,” LJ said about his decision to relocate. He arrived for a visit to see his father, who met his mother in a German disco in the 1990s. What was meant to be a temporary stay quickly turned into something more. “I liked it so much that I wanted to stay.”

In just a few months, LJ and his father returned to Germany to handle paperwork, and soon, LJ returned to Cleveland with his American citizenship in hand. “I don’t regret anything,” he confidently stated.

A New Perspective on the United States

Cleveland is known for its close-knit neighborhoods, passionate sports fans, and deep industrial history. For LJ, his experience in Cleveland defied the often negative portrayals of the United States he had seen in the media.

“In England, I was there for four months, and it was horrible. People would call me a Nazi or a Kraut because of my German accent,” he explained. “But here, I was warmly welcomed. Sure, there were jokes, but they were never malicious. I often laughed along.”

The friendliness of Clevelanders came as a surprise, especially since LJ feared discrimination due to his strong German accent. “I was surprised that as a German with my strong accent (believe me, it’s really strong), I didn’t encounter any discrimination.”

While Cleveland was welcoming, it also had its quirks. LJ observed behaviors he hadn’t seen in Germany, like people shopping in their pajamas or slippers, and the casual friendliness of strangers in places like Walmart. “People smile at you for no reason. And extremely hyper people who are happy for no reason, talking loudly, that’s something I’ve never seen in Germany,” he said, adding that it took some getting used to.

Despite these differences, Cleveland’s sense of community quickly grew on LJ. “Everyone has an uncle who lives in Frankfurt,” he said with a laugh. “It’s funny how much people here try to make you feel comfortable, and that’s why I love it here.”

A Changing Cleveland

Though Cleveland’s warm spirit remains intact, LJ noticed changes in the city over the past few years. The vibrant energy he experienced when he first arrived seemed to fade. “There’s simply less happening,” he observed. “I used to see people having lively conversations or kids playing outside. All of that seems to have disappeared.”

LJ wonders if this shift is tied to the economic struggles that many in Cleveland are facing. “More and more of my friends are working multiple jobs, and they have less time for activities,” he noted. “It feels different now, but I hope it goes back to how it was.”

This sense of desolation hasn’t deterred LJ’s love for the city. He still finds magic in Cleveland’s landmarks, particularly downtown, which remains his favorite part of the city. “My favorite landmark is actually the entire downtown area—I can’t explain it, but it’s magical!” he shared.

His connection to Cleveland’s history runs deep, especially with its connection to the creation of Superman. “I’m a big fan of the old abandoned factories, and I hope they never tear them down. And anything related to Superman—I love it!” he said, proudly acknowledging Cleveland as the birthplace of the iconic superhero.

Life as a German in Cleveland

Adjusting to Cleveland’s car-centric culture posed its own set of challenges for LJ, who was used to Germany’s efficient public transportation system. Without a car, getting around was difficult at first. “Cleveland is built for cars. It’s really hard to get from point A to point B without one,” he admitted. He eventually bought a scooter to get around, though winters made that option challenging. “I really need to start getting a driver’s license,” he joked.

Despite these practical difficulties, LJ finds plenty to love about Cleveland, particularly when comparing it to his life in Germany. “If you’re renting, Cleveland is great! You get so much more for your money here,” he said. The affordability of housing is something he encourages other Germans to consider if they’re thinking of making the move to Cleveland.

There’s one piece of advice LJ would give to anyone moving to Cleveland: “Buy a t-shirt or jacket that says ‘Cleveland’ on it. People love that here! And if you want to be adored, get something from the Browns. People will love you for that!”

The Reality of America vs. Media Portrayals

Before moving to Cleveland, LJ’s impression of the United States was heavily influenced by media portrayals of the country as being dominated by gun fanatics, extreme patriotism, and fast food. But his experience in Cleveland has shown a more nuanced reality.

“The media is pretty sensationalist when it comes to the U.S.,” he said. “Yes, a lot of people own guns, but everyone I know handles them responsibly.” He also noted that the patriotism in Cleveland is balanced by an openness to other cultures and flags. “No one here minds when I hang a German flag out of my window during the World Cup or European Championship. Here, all flags are respected, and THAT is simply wonderful!”

LJ also praised Cleveland for its tolerance of different religions and beliefs. “There are many Christians here, but they have no problem if you belong to another religion, or no religion at all. As long as you cheer for the same (sports) team, you’re friends!”

A Bright Future in Cleveland

Six-and-a-half years after his arrival, LJ feels settled and content with his life in Cleveland. His initial reservations have long faded as he found a welcoming community and friends who share his interests.

“I was quite reclusive in Germany, but here, there are many people who share my hobbies and interests,” he said. Now, LJ is focused on building his future in Cleveland, saving money and exploring the city further. “I plan to stay here for many more years—who knows, maybe even forever.”